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Sunday, February 2, 2014

Suffering intellectualized

To each according to his ability: even sufferings



To each according to his ability is adapted from a Marxist axiom the full version of the original brings out the utopia in it. The original goes thus;  ‘from each according to his ability and to each according to his needs’.
Of course one cannot say ‘to each according to his needs’  when talking about suffering for no one would crave suffering. To this my maternal grandmother’s stepmother was an exception. She would in her eighties pray ‘Lord give me more sufferings.’ So says my relatives of her  time. That was an exception and has to be treated as such. One need not know about the epicurean philosophy that people are epicurean. Increase of comforts if not pleasure and avoidance of pain are fundamental to psychology text books.

When suffering is inevitable one asks more for it? One tends to think that a certain fulfillment of basic needs is necessary on the lines of Maslow, before one asks for sufferings for I tend to believe to enjoy suffering one needs some comfortable surroundings.

When suffering is prolonged and seems to be never ending even in the twilight of one’s life, one may intellectualize. So did my paternal aunt, Elikkutty in her seventies. There was in vazhakkulam market of those days a very healthy man named Kochukunju. Kochukunju made a living  carrying heavy loads on his inordinately broad  back. Not infrequently we would see him carry a full sack of paddy or rice on his back when we used to walk to the church or to the market.


Elikkutty aunt would draw a parallel. Wouldn’t we rather call Kochukunju when we have a heavy load to be transported? So does Jesus (karthavu). When he wants suffering to be handled he would invite the strongest and the one who can pass the endurance test. So went her argument of having had to endure sufferings herself. She lost her husband at a young age and had to bring up the six children from meager earnings.